I am in the middle of a 4 day work stretch after our exhausting vacation but cannot let this day go by without saying Happy Birthday to LaNelle...I'm sorry there are no pictures...
Margaret LaNelle Sheridan is my second oldest child but firstborn and never was a birth so anticipated and celebrated...she was born 9 1/2 months after Pete and I married..17 months after we met...and about 20 people had walked the halls and waited for many hours and were crowded around the nursery window...Dr. Cohen did the newborn exam himself and as he grabbed her by her ankle and held her upside down to measure her he looked up to see if perhaps a grandparent was at the window...he was shocked to see faces pushed against ALL of the windows...he asked, "Who IS this child...is this a royal birth??" Pete answered, "She is my princess" and that was that. forevermore. Princess LaNelle weighed 9 pounds and 3 ounces and was 22 1/2 inches long (and was 2 weeks late..always a grand entrance!!!)
We learned on LaNelle...she never cried because we never gave her a chance. She never slept in her brand new 4 poster canopy crib...that made her cry and her Daddy just could not stand her crying...one night I threw a fit and demanded that she be left in the crib to "cry it out" and after 2 hours of screaming, she threw up. That is the only time in 25 years of marriage that Pete ever got seriously mad at me. He bathed her, changed her and rocked her to sleep and cried the whole time because he was so heartbroken that she had been that upset (are you coming to understand where the whole DIXIE DIVA attitude comes from??)
I was pregnant with Peter when she was 3 months old and had to return to my job for the insurance and so LaNelle spent 9 months in daycare...at Kindercare on Greystone Blvd less than 1/2 mile from Pete's work and 3 miles from mine...and since I worked 8-4 and we could take 2 twenty minute breaks or 1 long one (gotta love govt jobs), Pete decided to work 9-6 so this was her schedule...
7 am I nursed her and left for work
9 am Pete dropped her off at daycare
10 am I flew in, nursed her and flew back to work
12 Pete spent every single lunch hour with her for 9 months. He just played with her!!!!
1 pm I came on my lunch hour to nurse her and rock her to sleep. She would sleep till 4.
4 pm I picked her up. Yeah...they made fun of us at daycare but we did not care!!!
So she was incredibly spoiled...but she was also the sweetest little girl...we never moved anything breakable, we just told her "no, don't touch" and she wouldn't. We thought we were great parents but time would prove she was just very obedient. She had no hair forever and then gorgeous white blonde curls and big blue eyes and this perfect skin and she KNEW she was beautiful and loved every aspect of being a girl...especially the makeup and dressing up...she was petted and pampered by Heather and my two great aunts and my grandparents and Pete's mom flew down from NY 7 times to visit her before her 1st birthday...oh yeah, she didn't want for attention!
But here are the amazing character traits all that attention bred....she is self confident, outgoing, comfortable in any type of gathering, determined, unmovable in her faith, unshakable in her convictions, brilliant, creative, generous, and though she tries really hard to hide it from the world, she is compassionate and although she seldom cries in public, she is deeply moved by anyone "forgotten by the world"...she is always loved by and loves the elderly, the very young and has a special bond with handicapped children. She amazes me with all that she can accomplish. Give her a challenge and it is done. Her siblings all love her but Peter and Sarah Beth would hurt anyone who crosses her...seriously. And she mothers all of them...except Heather who mothers her!
So..a diva? a drama queen? high maintenance? ABSOLUTELY! and we wouldn't have her any other way...we love you BaNelle, MaNelle, LaLa, Lanniebell, princess...and wish we could be with you on your 24th birthday...



After Prince Charming signed this, he kissed her hand...she said, "He's not my type, I don't like brown hair boys..."



