Ron Grace 1953-2008
Pete's aunt, uncle and cousins moved from NY to California when he was a toddler. There were no blogs back then and so it was hard to stay very close...they talked on holidays and visited when they were on the same side of the continent...I met Pete's aunt only once when Patti was a toddler. Pete knows his cousins by name and has seen them a handful of times...so sad! But, he was still shocked and saddened to learn that his cousin Ron (only a month younger than Pete) was one of the victims in the train wreck in LA (you know the one where the engineer was texting???). As I read Ron's obituary, I thought more than once how similar in character he sounds to Pete...what a shame that families do not stay close...I love blogs and yes, I'll admit it, even facebook because it is a way to know about the lives of our extended family far away...you can skip the obit if you want but please say a prayer for Ron's wife and two sons...one of whom is named Andrew...Ron Grace, 55, Simi Valley
The head counselor at Theodore Roosevelt Middle School in Glendale is remembered by colleagues, students and family as ‘an incredibly happy person’ who lifted everyone’s spirits.
September 16, 2008Ron Grace was the heart and soul of Theodore Roosevelt Middle School in Glendale, a man who changed students’ lives and constantly uplifted colleagues. But had he been at school on Monday, Principal Maria Gandera said, he would have been talking about two things: How the San Diego Chargers got fleeced on Sunday, and how ridiculous it was to see reporters and a television camera in front of his school.
“He’d just find this funny, because he was never out there seeking any attention,” Gandera said.
Roosevelt was in the media eye Monday because Grace, the school’s head counselor, was killed in the crash of Metrolink train 111 on Friday as he was riding home to Simi Valley. He was 55.
The loss devastated not only his family, including his wife and two sons, but the school where he spent 23 years.
“Ron Grace: I think his name said it all,” Gandera said. “He was a quiet, dignified man – with a devilish sense of humor.” Grace had an ever-present smile, colleagues remembered, and showed extraordinary devotion to students, often giving up his lunch break to referee football or basketball games.
“He was part of our family,” said Emma Villalobos, whose three daughters were counseled by Grace. When Villalobos went through a divorce, she said, Grace helped her two older daughters through the tumult. Because of him, she said, one is now at UCLA, the other at Cal State Northridge. The third is in eighth grade at Roosevelt.
“My kids,” she said, “had an angel named Mr. Grace.”
Born in Brooklyn, N.Y., Ronald Gerard Grace moved to Glendale at the age of 1. He attended Bellarmine-Jefferson High School in Burbank, where he was a standout on the football field and in the classroom. At San Diego State University, he developed his fanatical devotion to the Chargers. He began working at Roosevelt in 1985 as a physical education teacher and became a counselor four years later.
He is survived by his wife, Jan; sons, Andrew, 23, and Brian, 19; and five siblings, Jack Grace, Arleen Grace, Ginger Lyman, Michelle Stochel and Lorraine Grace. A memorial service will be held at San Fernando Mission on Sept. 27 at 11 a.m.
Recalling her brother, Lorraine Grace said: “He was an incredibly happy person. His favorite saying was, ‘The glass is half full.’ He loved adventure, loved doing new things. I admire him more than anyone else in the entire world. The universe surely shifted on Friday.”
OK terrible picture of me but fabulous of "my elders"...they haven't really changed at all..maybe a little more mature but just the same as they were in 1978...except Elder Healy had bright red hair and now it's white...I love them and they have the most AWESOME wives..we were all blessed with very choice mates!!!!
My favorite missionaries and our family's personal heros!!!
Brother Brooksby, Pete, and I laughing at a memory!
Sister Brooksby and grandbaby join in! 
LaNelle, Wilson, and Elder Telford's daughter chatting while Bonnie Telford listens to me yak!
Barbara and her daughters and grandchildren..Bree loves Steven and he adores her! See McCall next to Steven...she was 7 or 8 the year LaNelle stayed with her, went to EFY and met Steven!W What a fabulous fun and touching night we all had!! I miss them already...
